Research of a 20 something woman in the 21st century:
Where life, dating, eating, and humor all come together into one shit pile. The life of Spicy Hips and her woes. (Not for the faint of heart or delicate ears) I swear like a sailor and emphasize in adult content. Adulting in the 21st century isn’t easy for a 20 something year old– Choose to laugh or choose to cry, or do both. The choice is yours.
Preface: I have been developing the idea of this “podlog” (trademarked by me) for a couple of years now. A podlog is a series of tradition blog posts with a mixture of audio entries… hence the word “podlog”.
Dedication: This is for me. I am unique. Just like you are. I choose to process and share my experiences by communicating using (mostly) humor. I can be offensive, crude, forward, politically incorrect and a bit damn dramatic but what do I have to apologize for? I choose to be a realist in a world filled with many fakes. I hope to inspire those who are yearning for more in life- More vulnerability, success, failures, connection and passion. I give this advice to you- SPEAK! Tell your truth. Go on without judgement. Go on with the ability to laugh at life’s uncomfortable situations (at times self-inflicted), and dear Lord help me- Do not make my story or thoughts about YOU or YOUR beliefs. I do not share to offend and if you have a different point of view or opinion.. share it with me in a positive way! I love to learn about the world around me and believe that the only way to grow and change is to exchange conversations, experiences and learn from one another! However, at the end of the day… this is for me. My self love, appreciation, humility—- Your view of me or opinion of my life experience will not change what I know and love about myself. Instead of commenting anything negative- Perhaps take a moment and look inward. Question yourself about why you feel the way you do… What experiences in your life have you or haven’t you had to guide you to that reaction? Then be willing to choose to remain the same or choose to change your perspective. Choose to understand or respect. Your reaction is based on YOU. Nothing I say or do will be able to change that. “Focus on only what is yours to control; Your action, your words and your reactions. In doing this, you will find the simplicity of inner peace and true Eternal happiness.”- Jenny Tasker “Hate no one, no matter how much they have wronged you. Live humbly, no matter how wealthy you become. Think positively, no matter how hard life is. Give much, even if you have been little. Forgive all, especially yourself. Never stop praying for the best for everyone” – Unknown
Disclaimer: There will be times that I may post things created by other people who inspire me. I will always do my best to give utmost credit where it is due. Thank you to all who continue to make the world better by inspiring, laughing and giving more love out into the Universe.
-Namasté (My soul recognizes your soul, My heart honors your heart
-So Hum (I am that I am)
-OM (I am exactly where I need to be)